RIGHT TIME TO HAVE SEX IS WHEN YOU WANT TO HAVE SEX

Guys, when a lady visits you, it is not automatic that
you're going to have sex and it's not a must that you
have sex when she visits. Her intentions of visiting
could have everything to do with bonding, enjoying
your company and spending lovely moments with you
devoid of sex. Unfortunately, majority of men cling
onto the belief that when a woman visits; she is ready
and has come for sex - and this is why most visits turn
nasty as the guy tries to force himself on the lady and
or even some resulting into date rape. Sex always has
to be consensual - if a woman is not ready to have sex
with you when she visits, don't push her or force her
into it, respect her boundaries, understand her
reasons and by doing so you will increase your chances
of having sex with her next time she visits. To have or
not to have sex is all about communication. I will say
that I like sex, I enjoy it and do it with passion, but
sex is never proof of love - it is simply one piece of the
relationship puzzle. One thing I've come to realize
from my interraction with women and sexcapades is
that the timing of when a woman is going to have sex
with you isn't as important as her mindset and
intentions beforehand. And this underscores the fact
that the brain is the major sex organ. So, for me there
is no specific timetable before new partners start
having sex - it is more of building immense amounts of
attraction and having emotional connection. For
women, they interpret sex as the ultimate sign of
intimacy and is much of an emotional act than just a
physical act of dipping an erect dick into a wet pussy.
Women will always want to feel comfortable, relaxed
and emotionally connected before opening their legs
to a man. If she is not ready to have sex with you just
yet, she is not just ready; either she doesn't feel
emotionally secure with you, or she is just not
psychologically prepared. When it comes to sex,
understanding and respecting your woman's need to
wait should supercede your own physical urges.
Ladies, have sex with a guy when you are ready and
you're doing it simply because you want to. Do not
sleep with a guy hoping he will like you more and don't
yield to his pressure and have sex with him because he
insisted. You can do something; which is to say NO, and
never apologize to a man for not being ready to have
sex with him. The right guy has no problem waiting for
his woman as long as he knows the pay off is realistic
and worth his time. The wrong guy will pressure you
and talk about his 'needs', he will say or do anything
to have his way.
NOTE: The right time to have sex is when you want to
have sex.