MAKE SURE IT'S A MAN, NOT A BOY !!!

MAKE SURE IT’S A MAN, NOT A BOY!
1. A man has his act together. He has goals and they
usually include finding the right woman and starting
a family. A boy just wants to have fun and considers
the words “commitment,” “responsibility” and
“ambition” as dirty words. Say them around him and
he will run like a bat out of hell.
2. Sure, a real man wants an attractive woman, but
her hotness is not his biggest concern – he wants
someone with intelligence, compassion, morals and a
desire to improve herself. A boy wants that dime piece
that is exciting and wild. He’s in it for the hunt.
3. A man is working toward the future. He has plans to
become financially stable and to be able to provide
well for himself and his loved ones. A boy isn’t
thinking about tomorrow, only what the hottest car is
and how he can use it to pick up the ladies.
4. A man is conscious of the man he wants to be and
he is willing to work at it. He has values and respect
for others. A boy is in it for the moment. He doesn’t
really consider the consequences of his actions.
5. A man will recognize a good woman when he
encounters her and he will be respectful and try to get
to know her personally. A boy will look a lady up and
down and is only interested in scoring.
6. A man knows when to invest time and more into a
woman. He is supportive, while a boy may toss money
at a woman, but only for his own personal gain. He’s
not investing; he’s testing.
7. A man will be upfront and honest about his
intentions. He’s not afraid to be, well, a man! A boy is
going to beat around the bush and never be interested
in having a conversation about a future together.
Indeed, that will make him run like the wind.
8. A man takes the time to enjoy life, but his priority
is improving his life and helping those around him. A
boy is most interested in what club to hit and getting
crunk with his boys.
9. A man will suck it up and ask the tough questions
when the time is right. He does not like rejection, but
he will put himself in the line of fire when necessary.
A boy is so afraid of rejection, he won’t even commit
in the first place. He may be boisterous, but his ego is
so fragile, it would crash and burn at the first sign of
hurt.
10. A man is, well, real. He has integrity. He doesn’t
feed you a bunch of crap – he follows through on his
word and keeps his promises. A boy will tell you what
he thinks you want to hear and his word is usually
about as good as you can throw a bowling ball.
11. A man will not mess with your head or your heart.
He’s not into silly games. A boy is nothing but games
and he’ll do only what it takes to get you in a
compromising position.
Bottom line: a man is about honesty, integrity and
heart. Can you recognize him?